
Look up! Does Grilled Steak and Papaya give you a hint about what’s going on my life? I hope so because I can’t seem to muster the concentration to say much more than yummy. That’s partly because I’m in vacation anticipation mode. The next time you hear from me I’ll be in Tahiti. Or Moorea. Or maybe you won’t hear from me at all while I’m away. I can’t promise much with a snorkel in my mouth and a cold beer in my hand. Tahiti. Moorea. Snorkeling. Beer. Obviously, this is a tropical vacation. In that regard, I suppose this post is at least timely even if it’s not comprehensive. Grilled Steak and Papaya sets a tropical tone at any latitude.
If it sounds like I’m apologizing in advance for a series of upcoming slip-shod posts I’m sorry. Oh wait, is that me apologizing for apologizing?
You see, when it comes to this blog I’m a planner. I can even be a pre-planner. Especially when I have a vacation on the horizon. To prepare this little blog for a trip I typically plan way, way ahead. I’ve been known to write a dozen posts in advance then set my blog on auto-publish while I’m gone. I may get a break, but to my way of thinking the blog NEVER gets a break.
Which is why I’m a little surprised the only adjective coming from my fingertips is “yummy”. But the truth is this Grilled Steak and Papaya is indeed yummy. Maybe I don’t need to say anything else.
Of course, there are plenty of other reasons for my loss of initiative. Like all of us, I have bread to “win” and bacon to “bring home”. Why do vacations require so much bread and bacon? Plus, this past year or so has been more hectic than usual. My MIL moved in with us just about 18 months ago. It’s been an all-consuming lifestyle change.
Though I realize the changes around here have affected how I approach this blog, I’ve still tried to keep a lot of the details to myself. It’s easy to sound whiny in 500 pithy blog words. So I’ll just try to say it as simply as I can.
There are many challenges to living with an elderly person with dementia. There are absolute rewards too. However, mentioning the rewards without talking about the challenges would ring hollow. Life’s greatest rewards come with a lot of effort – to pretend otherwise is insincere. So rather than risk sounding glib I’ll leave it with this all-too-true statement: in order to be an effective caregiver, you must first care for yourself.

So I’m taking a break, packing my sarong, and heading to the South Seas. My MIL will be well cared for. We’ve got a team of family and caregivers in place. It may sound like I’m apologizing for going to Tahiti and Moorea where there will be snorkeling and beer. A place where maybe I’ll post and maybe I won’t. But it doesn’t feel like an apology to me because if I do post it will because I really want to. Because getting away helps me appreciate all the things I love about my lucky life. And one of those things is this little blog. Isn’t that the point of a vacation? GREG

Grilled Steak and Papaya
I hope you enjoyed your trip and didn’t feel guilty about your MIL. This recipe looks delicious, BTW.
I’m so behind on reading your posts, G. This is the first one that caught my eye. I’m dying to taste it!
No apologies necessary, Greg! You two are taking good care of your MIL. And if you are to continue, you need a break now and then. This steak looks like something I need to put on the menu soon!
Enjoy the time off! It’s absolutely necessary for all of us humans. Meanwhile, I’ll enjoy this delicious recipe ^^
Take your clothes off and go blogless. You deserve it! Ken’s mom is one lucky lady, so enjoy!
Have a fantastic trip Greg. You are right to get a break — it makes all the difference when caring for family. Good for you! P.S. Great recipe too 🙂
Enjoy your well deserved time off. Can’t wait to see what other delicious inspirations will come from your vacation.
You and your partner definitely deserve a break, no apologies necessary. As for the blog, I am the same (I have posts cued up until late August) but fret not if you don’t post, we will wait for you with open arms!
This steak looks awesome, a perfect segue to your vacation and a beautiful addition to your lovely blig.
Enjoy your break. XO
I cared for my mom in her later years, and it was, well, I’m not going to say hard, because that’s not the right word. It was a lot to do, and it made other parts of my life complicated, but I was glad to do it, and I remain glad that I did it. It’s a wonderful thing that you’re doing. All except for the sarong! Puhleeeze! 😉
The steak sounds right in line with where you are (headed). I understand too well changes. Take care and swim in the azure blue seas for me. ~Bijouxs
Taking care of yourself is so important. And that statement comes as someone who is not very good at it. Enjoy Polynesia. And we will all be here when you get back!
Wow, I definitely agree that your steak and salsa is yummy! Enjoy the tropics!!
Have fun in Tahiti, it’s on my bucket list. I am glad you are taking care of yourself!
Tahiti?! Lucky you! Never been, always wanted to go. Have fun. And thanks for leaving us this terrific recipe so we won’t starve while you’re gone. 🙂